Woman Watch

Woman Watch

How do you know if a woman wants sex? It'd be a lot easier if your girlfriend was a baboon. Unlike her shy human equivalent, the female baboon blatantly advertizes when she fancies a bit. During ovulation when she's most likely to get pregnant and feel turned on (also true for humans) - the area round her genitals turns bright red. Just in case her mate doesn't get the message, she crouches in front of him, waving her bottom in the air. While I doubt your girlfriend will wiggle her bottom so blatantly, let's be honest, she is wiggling it. And there are other signs too, albeit a little more subtle.

Secret Signs She's Ready for Sex

Her eyes seem glittery and sparkly.

Her cheeks change color, she'll blush and glow, then go pale again. Her pulse is racing.

Her facial muscles appear tight and toned. Her cheekbones seem more pronounced than usual.

There's a flush of color or slight rash on her neck, shoulders, and chest.

She's stroking her neck lots.

She's looking at your mouth loads.

She's touching her mouth and lips with her fingertips.

She's smoothing her skirt down over her hips to accentuate the curves/tucking her thumbs in the waistband of her trousers/jeans and pushing them down to show off her tummy/hiking her skirt high to show off her thighs.

Give Her Exactly what She Wants

Admit it: you love hugging the remote control for the telly. Well, now you're going to do the same with sex. Just as you switch channels to control what's on the screen, you're switching body parts to control the level of her desire. Switching sexual channels not only reduces any chance of desensitization (if touch is constantly concentrated in one area, the skin stops sending pleasure signals to the brain), it adds an element of surprise and teasing, and keeps her hovering in that almost-but-not-quite-there pre-climax zone.

Switch between four basic channels: the visual channel (pull back and drink in her body with your eyes, hold eye contact during naughty bits - watching each other is an incredible way to up the eroticism); the mouth-motivated channel (talking dirty, kissing, biting, licking); the flesh-on-flesh channel (skin-on-skin, touching-at-every-possible-point); the touch channel (gentle fingertip touch, whole-hand massage, grabbing, squeezing, inserting).

Swap between all four channels to build excitement to a peak, but watch to see which she likes the most. Then settle in to fine-tune your technique. The next session, concentrate on her favorite channel, but continue to throw in plenty of variety and varied techniques until she simply can't choose between them...

If You Really Want to Make Her Day

Make her beg for it

Push her hand away and say, 'You can't touch me until I tell you to.' Take off all of her clothes and leave yours on. If you're giving her oral, take regular breaks and detour back up to tongue her belly button, licking your way back down again. Then stop and ask, 'How badly do you want me to finish?'

Make her cry - out loud

A lot of women are dreadfully quiet in the bedroom, terrified that even a moan will somehow seem 'slutty'. (I mean, what would you think? That we're enjoying ourselves? How dreadful.) Give her permission to be vocal by encouraging her to let you know how she's feeling. Ask her to groan when she likes it and keep quiet when she doesn't. Women are natural people pleasers - you'll be the one who's blushing in front of the neighbors.